1. Crappy, endless, exhausting, thankless work on behalf of others is killing you. 2. You can’t want more for someone than they want for themselves. You will only burn yourself out trying. 3. When you are the dependable person who always takes care of everyone no one has to step up to do it. You give everyone an easy way out. 4. You have the right to say no to everything and all things and in doing so you honor yourself and require others to step up. 5. Just because you are e